I have always believed that most relationship can be saved by a little more communication. I have always been the guy that is ready to talk… to be the guy that confronts people whome he is upset with or who he thinks he has upset (Hemanth and Swetha can testify to that). Honestly it has worked each and every time.
Depending on the person I can walk up to him/her and simply say “Last week you did this… and I did not like it coz I felt like this…” or “Last time we spoke I said this and I think you misunderstood it… this is what I actually meant…” Trust me the best of friendships can get leveled coz you said something or did not say something…
Recently I had a problem which made me realize that sometimes things can get really bad and you are just unable to do anything without possibly upsetting the situation even more. My earlier method worked coz I could contact the other person and tell them my point of view… This time unfortunately there seems to be a communication gap… I cant seem to be able to get the person into a conversation and each failed attempt is just making it worse. What is even more confusing is that there is a small probability that there is no confusion what so ever and I was just misreading the cards on this one.
Guess, I will have to let a little water flow below the bridge before telling my story… Anyway as they say “time heals all wounds”.