It sucks to be stood up and I got a taste of that last week… Its really irritating to wait and the person never shows up or calls. In this case sadly it was the same person and it happened 3 times.
I was supposed to catch a evening snack with * (* for all future references is ‘this person’), I was waiting from 5 and tried calling a couple of times but no answer… I thought * must hv gone out with *’s family(considering it was a sunday).
I get a apology the next day and an assurity of a call later in the day. The call never comes… I just go to sleep waiting(I didnt call * for reasons)… There is an apology later and another promise for a call… This time I dont wait up for it(Once bitten twice shy…) It never comes.
* had also promised to hv a cup of coffee with me this weekend but it never happened too. (I did not rely on * showing up totally).
Now to the part thats most irritating… I meet * over the weekend and its like nothing has happened… * gives a smile and a ‘hi’ [Thousands of knives stab me all over] and I reply politely with a hi and a smirk(I find it almost impossible to be rude to ppl)
* point of view might be different. I know for a fact that *’s week in the office was the worst ever… * might hv simply forgotten to tell me, well * did apologise twice for it. I will definately tell * what I felt coz I tell friends when they piss me off… It totally reduces any form of miscommunication or misunderstanding and gets me a good nights sleep as well.
Any Suggestions feel free to drop them…
UPDATE:
* apologised and things are pretty much back to where it was… Well, I hv not asked out * again but we hv kept the phone company in business a lot lately :P