Me: Do you believe in Soulmates?
Her: Yeah… I think there are soulmates for everybody.
Me: So there is one soulmate for everyone in the world?
Her: Yeah, the problem I think is finding them. But what about soulmates.
Me: The concept of soulmates is good but what if soulmates dont occur in pairs.
Her: I don’t understand.
Me: Well, lets say A is the soulmate of B. But what is the guarantee that B will automatically be the soulmate of A

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My greatest regret has always been knowing so many amazing people and never actually ‘knowing’ them.

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Her: I think the point of life is to run after what is important and not give up until you have it.
Me: But how do you know what is important.
Her: Happiness, of course. Everybody deep down wants to be happy.
Me: But not everybody is happy all the time, are they?
Her: I don’t know.

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A near dear friend of mine gave birth to a handsome baby boy a few hours ago. I have been thrilled with the whole thing from day one of the whole pregnancy and its hard to explain the delight I feel.

We were a small bunch of close friends in college and we used to hang out all the time… When you know somebody for so long you just have this unseen bond, their happiness becomes yours too

I just cant stop smiling… If you happen to meet me today you might notice that my smile is a little longer

Ps: The title is a quote from F.R.I.E.N.D.S. Obviously its apt but it seems so much more apt considering the show its from

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Its days like these that make me pensive (no I am not pensive all the time like some people think I am). In a few short hours the Earth would have completed 24 trips around the sun since the day I was born…

I look around me and wonder what I should be doing, no not in the thought that I have nothing to do right now but more with the outlook that a year back I was in this same place, so what has changed? Ironically I remember very well what I did that day. So well infact that its what is adding to the current restlessness.


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Me: I cant believe you couldn’t wait for 15 min…
Her: I had to leave, I would have stayed if I could… Besides I watched the play didn’t I.
Me: How do I know if you did? You weren’t there at the end…
Her: (Raising her eyebrows) So now I have to prove that I was there…
Me: So what did you think of it?
Her: Pretty good stuff. I liked your co actors they were real good…
Me: Yep they is pretty talented actors.
Her: I read the original story from which the play was adapted… Pretty good stuff… Both the original and the adaptation
(I just smiled back at her)
Her: Now don’t fish for compliments… you know you were good.
Me: Well me and compliments have a very weird relationship.


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Her: You know, you can tell how important someone is to you in a relationship by how you converse with them…
Me: hmmm…
Her: Its a bit complicated but let me explain
Me: Ok go ahead…
Her: Think about people you are close to and why you love taking to them. Its mostly either coz they are good listeners or coz you like to listen to them. I believe that if you love to listen to someone speak that person is very special to you. Now this is not the usual speech kind of listening.
Me: But in the sense that you call them up so that you can listen to what they say…
Her: Right… It think its built into our system to automatically favor such people… Its almost as if we want to know more about that person or their opinion ect.
Me: Interesting, its not necessarily right I think but you have a valid point.
Her: Well it seems right for me…
Me: So let me get this straight… If the other person speaks more than you then it implies that subconsciously you like this person so you want hear more of what they say…
Her: Just about…
Me: OR that person keeps on talking and doesn’t let you get a word in…
Ms Pretty eyes gives this amazing smile and adds “Well I stand corrected… looks like the second reason is more valid”

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